All of us have our very own regular solutions to practical question, “Understanding your ideal guy/girl like?” we rattle down like a checklist, as we question WHERE OH WHERE IS IT MAGICAL MAN and, consequently, dismiss any possible suitors who don’t have every quality on our very own handy dandy record. We miss times, do not respond to texts or emails and hold out for Prince (Or Princess) Charming. We restrict ourselves because we have a list and now we are following it, damn it.

The guy need high, 6’1 would-be perfect. Dark colored hair, mild vision. I’ve never ever had much fortune with golden-haired males, very let us count them entirely, shall we? The guy should be who is fit, and just have impressive style. I would like him to make myself have a good laugh while I have always been determined to not break a grin, really love dark wine and understand the difference in a Shiraz and Cabernet, have a routine that meshes perfectly with mine, remember each one of my friends’ labels, birthdays and favored foods, push us to orgasm three times just about every day, ensure my car is loaded with gas, basically does the right situations, claims ideal circumstances, always within correct times-as defined by myself, of course and these “right things” are subject to alter whenever you want, plus he should tolerate my personal self-admitted moodiness and it also is awesome if he played your guitar or guitar also, just because i believe it really is hot. OH, and he must devoted, magnetic caring, kind…you obtain the point. Here is the man-quivalent of my safe place.

What Happens Whenever What We Say We Would Like Isn’t Really What We Should Actually Need?

If you ask me, nothing actually goes based on plan, of course it will, well, it’s sorts of humdrum. Obtaining just what actually Needs is great, don’t get me wrong-I like my personal Starbucks made a certain method, exactly the means I want it, my Mac computer configured to especially fit my personal every need, and my steak much better end up being medium rare if not it’s heading right back.

Decide to try going outside your own rut, and present the girl just who may possibly not have the long hair you would like a whole lot but has a striking laugh the possibility.  That guy would youn’t play the electric guitar and looks relatively shy?  Provide him a spin also.  Maybe you are amazed, along with your existence simply could end up more interesting.